is there anywhere online i can find someone to talk to?

im not looking for a singles or dating site, i just need someone to
talk to.. kind of like a pen pal, through emails or something. someone
my own age and ideally (20) somewhat like me that i could just talk to
about life and problems, ect. i have a boyfriend but he refuses to
discuss anything to do with my feelings and ignores them completely
and im going insane. i just had a baby so i dont get to go out much
and really dont have much time for friends. im just wondering is there
anywhere i could find someone like that on the internet? i dont mean a
counselor. a friend of sorts. just wondering. dont bother commenting
if youre gonna be rude. thanks!

(i have an odd way of looking at things and im very opinionated. i
have a realistic view on things. im a good listener too. im not some
huge freak with no friends, just dont have time for or interest in
many people. most people rub me the wrong way. but im pretty friendly
to anyone who can understand anything about me or how things really
work. sooo.. someone like that. and around 20. any websites for
that?... wow i sound absolutely twisted.. but thanks for any help!)